Romantic or sexual relationships with patients and key third parties


  • Scenario 1: A patient’s mother expresses romantic interest in you and invites you to lunch.
  • Approach
    • Never enter a romantic relationship with a current patient or key third parties (i.e., those involved in patient decision-making and care).
    • Set firm boundaries and avoid unnecessary contact.
      • Ask specific, close-ended questions.
      • Use a chaperone if necessary.
      • Consider transitioning care to another clinician
  • Scenario 2: A patient makes a sexually inappropriate comment during genital examination.
  • Approach
    • Inform the patient politely and directly that their comment is inappropriate.
    • Request the presence of a chaperone.
    • Ask only direct, close-ended questions.
    • Perform only medically necessary portions of the examination to minimize contact.